This book is a bold, compassionate, and empowering exploration of financial abuse, one of the most overlooked and insidious forms of control in domestic and family violence. Through the lens of lived experience, professional expertise, and care, it brings to light the many ways financial abuse manifests—coercive control over money, restricted access to resources, manipulation of assets, and sabotage of employment or education.
Far more than a theoretical discussion, this book offers practical guidance and a roadmap to freedom. It takes readers through the emotional and financial toll of abuse, while providing tools for recognising red flags, rebuilding financial independence, and reclaiming personal power. Each chapter weaves together survivor stories, expert insights, and actionable steps for recovery.
Core themes include:
- Understanding what financial abuse is and how it works
- The link between financial abuse and homelessness, especially for women
- The role of mindset, self-worth, and trauma in breaking free
- Creating financial safety plans and long-term security
- Educating and empowering others to take back control
- Building a new life through support, learning, and goal setting
This book is for survivors, advocates, professionals, and policymakers—anyone who wants to deepen their understanding of financial abuse and be part of the movement to break the cycle. It’s a guide for healing, a tool for advocacy, and a call to action for systemic change.
Michael de Haan
Australian Ambassador for Financial Abuse | Financial Abuse Specialist | Certified Money Coach | Author | Advocate
Michael, a leading voice in the fight against financial abuse in Australia. As a Certified Money Coach, author of the groundbreaking book Financial Abuse, and the Financial Abuse Ambassador for Australia, Michael is on a mission to expose the silent weapon of control that too often goes unseen and unchallenged.
Backed by over 20 years in financial services and coaching, Michael brings a rare blend of professional insight and personal purpose. His advocacy was born from deep loss: the death of his twin sister, whose life was devastated by abuse and a system that failed her.
Through keynote speaking, training, and national media, Michael gives voice to victims and supporters, educates professionals, and holds institutions to account.
His message is clear and urgent: No woman should be silenced, isolated, or made unsafe—especially when money is the means of control.
Speaking Engagements:
- Industry Conferences and Corporate Seminars
- Community Education Forums and Domestic Violence Awareness Events
- Financial Planning and Mortgage Industry Training
- Government and Policy Advisory Roundtables